Dating Tips: Share A Little More Personal On Yourself

 Have you been dating for a long time but felt that something is still
lacking somewhere? Not understanding your partner well enough? The
chances are, both of you are likely still stuck at the very initial
stage of a relationship. Well give it a thought. Recall the
conversations between both of you in your recent dates or so. What was
it that both of you discussed about? The plot of a movie? What
happened during work? The recent fashion sales? Your neighbour's new
born puppies? Gossiping about your friends? Last evening soccer match?

Notice something about the examples I gave? These are all the usual
casual topics that you would have also discussed with your friends.
Discussions that do not have direct impact on your personal life.

In a relationship, it's not about how well or how long you knew each
other but rather how well you understand each other? Understanding
your love, someone whom you are going to share the rest of your life
with.

Well, if in the first place you don't even have a clue on your
partner's personal life, how will you able to understand each other
well? It is through the willingness to share, sharing of your personal
life with each other that builds the trust and bond between both of
you, strengthening the relationship.

Wouldn't you love to know more about your partner? Something more
personal about him or her? I am sure you do. Well, you can start off
by sharing yours, perhaps sharing the problem that you are facing,
seeking for your partner's advice. Think about it, wouldn't you be
happy

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 astping@126.com wrote:


 > Not understanding your partner well enough?

A man is a fool if he thinks he can understand his date (or any other
woman).


Such as, the best way to get into her pants? (I don't know why you
beat around the bush so much).

Once I worked in this office where there was a really cute receptionist
and I made two indirect passes at her (neither of which worked, btw
but she thought they were funny so at least were good for a few laughs):

Pass #1 - She was fond of reading these paperback bodice-rippers with
the shiny embossed covers typically showing a busty maiden in the arms
of a handsome swain. So I found her one at a thrift store; the cover
showed the usual couple (in this case necking under a tree) with two
wolves in the foreground. I added a sticky note with the following
dialog between the wolves:

Wolf A: "Mommy, why are those two humans making such a big fuss and
commotion? Mating season is still months away."

Wolf B: "Never mind, Lupus dear, the first thing you must learn about
humans is that they're always in heat."


Pass #2 - She came to work one morning all in a snit about some creep
who had come on to her in a crude way when she on a sidewalk downtown.

Me: "I guess he didn't use the right approach."
She: "That's for sure."
Me: "Well, just for the record, what _is_ the right approach?"
She: [laughs]

SQ

 

    OK, guys, let's leave that one alone .....


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heh heh. He said, "beat around the bush."

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